Follow Up to my post on the Park 51 Community Center

My post about the Park 51 Muslim Community Center has created quite a stir on some of our industry message boards. Since I wrote the post that is at the heart of these heated discussions, I think that I should probably chime in and make a couple of comments and address some of the issues that some of the posters  are raising.  Because the posts were made on industry message boards that are for the meetings and events community I have opted to post my open reply here so that they are available for all to read.

My goal with the original post was not to make this a thing, but a thing is what it is. I am open to any all discussions on the matter, that is my way. I have never steered away from a good debate. In fact, I relish them. I find that it is good to be proven right and that it can be just as fun to be proven wrong by the simple act of discussing facts and opinions. The one thing that I hope is that all of the discussions on this matter can be open and honest and fair. We can certainly have it in the comment section here or if anyone is local to me, we can always have a cold beer and sit and debate, that is one of life’s small pleasures.

I firmly believe that it is our responsibility as Americans to live up to our American values, it is that simple. Being an American and supporting these values means sometimes having to support something that you disagree with. Again, just because you don’t agree with something does not make it wrong.  While the choice of where to put the Park 51 Muslim Community Center near Ground Zero was probably short-sighted, it is the developers choice to make, not ours. Roger Ebert of the Chicago Sun Times has an excellent post regarding the Cultural Center that I think everyone should take a minute and read.

First, let me hit you with my quote of the day:

“Those who deny freedom to others deserve it not for themselves”.

This is a quote by Abraham Lincoln, the words still ring true today. Perhaps many right wing  Americans don’t think Mr. Lincoln was a patriot but I for one think that he would be sickened by what we are doing and how we are acting. As a country, we are taking 10 steps in the wrong direction here.

While I understand the anger of many Americans toward what happened on 9/11 (I knew people that perished that day so I don’t need that lecture, the attacks angered and sickened me) I also feel that it is our responsibility as Americans to be bigger than the act. That is why we are American. This is why so many people from around the world long to live here and be a part of our culture and share our values. To come here to escape the very people that attacked us and then have their fellow Americans turn on them as well should keep us awake at night. Think about this, we, their fellow Americans are now the source of their fear.

It is also the responsibility of Americans to be informed and educated on a matter before we judge.

Many of the comments that were made on a couple of great industry boards are lazy and filled with a few hazy half truths. The hazy half truths are what are driving the radical right and getting people all worked up into a lather. These hazy half truths seem to make some  abandon their  American values in defense of America, this to me, is unAmrican. I am sure you are familiar with these hazy half truths, they give rise to those frightening emails that friends send us that range from “a President that is not an American” to “Poisonous spiders from India that live on toilet seats” (Yes, I actually got this email).  That is a major problem today,  if Glenn Beck says it is so, then many, many, people are quick to believe it without checking the facts behind the story. That is sad because a simple Google search of almost anything will uncover the lie that is hidden behind the story.

One poster on a message board  mentioned the al Quds Mosque that was shut down in 2010 by German Authorities because it was believed to be a place where terrorist activity was taking place. This is correct, this is the truth. Bravo to the German authorities for taking action against people that were breaking the law and wanted to harm innocent people. This Mosque was indeed full of bad people. Looking deeper though, you will find that this does not mean that all community centers and Mosques are breeding grounds for scum-bag radicals  that want to destroy the world. Looking deeper you will find that most Mosques are occupied by nice people that are saying prayers before they have to rush back to their jobs as Doctors, Lawyers, Cab Drivers, Judges or Car Mechanics. They are simply like you and me.

To use the al Quds Mosque seizure as an example to ban the building of the Park 51 Islamic Community Center is ridiculous. In America you are innocent until proven guilty, is it not our responsibility as Americans to honor this? If we use this example are we not convicting this group before a trial simply because of who they are? Is it not the job of law enforcement to determine if there is illegal activity (and from what I have seen lately, law enforcement is doing a pretty good job) or is it now vigilante justice that we seek? Are they to blame for the actions of others and we the people in order to form a more perfect union will kick their asses to the curb because Rush Limbaugh said they are bad people.

The fact that Radical Islamists are recruited in Mosques should surprise no one, this should be self evident. Anyone that wishes to radicalize members of a community do so where that community meets, in the case of Islam, that would be a Mosque. I am sure that they recruit in other places as well, but right now we are talking about Mosques and community centers. This does not mean that all Mosques (or community centers) are centers of radicalization.

If this were true, the same argument could be made that we should shut down all Christian churches because of Violent Radical Christian Groups. Yes, there are plenty of Hyper-Violent Radical Christian Groups, and I am not talking about those good ol boys from back in the Crusades, I am talking recent history.

Should I name a few? Let’s try some on for size. The Westboro Baptist Church, The National Liberation Front of Tripura, which by the way has been classified as one of the 10 most active terrorist groups on the planet, they forcefully convert people to Christianity in India and also force women into pornography to support their operations. They are some real honeys. Then there is the Lord’s Resistance Army in Uganda. These lovelies have killed thousands in the name of God. Wanna know what some of these shiny happy people do? They wear the Rosary and recite Bible passages before they enter battle…. oh and they rape and have recruited, by some estimates, 10,000 children to do their fighting. To get the children, they kill the parents or teachers.

Let us also not forget the Paramilitaries on both sides of the conflict in Northern Ireland… where do you think that they recruit?? The pub?  well yeah, I guess they do, but they also recruit in the church of their faith. We should also talk about our home grown Christian Brothers like The Branch Davidians, Concerned Christians and the good ol’ Hutare
e
from Adrian, MI…. they are currently accused of Seditious Conspiracy and attempted use of weapons of mass destruction……

I guess we better run right out and start blocking churches and denying building permits because I don’t want freaks like that in my neighborhood. I wonder if Glenn Beck knows about these guys…..oh wait, I think he supports some of these guys.

If you use the logic that the center will be used for recruiting, as you can see, I can raise the argument that you should not build or rebuild a church in the United States or anywhere else for that matter. I would never do that, it is contrary to the 1st Amendment and therefore, contrary to my beliefs as an American. I am also clear on the concept that just because a group is religious, it does not make them radical. If you believe this, you are demonizing.

What do both radical Islamists and radical Christians share? They practice a corrupted, perverted version of their faith. We must compare apples to apples if we are going to crucify the builders of the Park 51 Community Center….. (yes, the pun was intended).

Half truths and lies, lies, lies. This is what the radical right would like you to believe, I enter into evidence that Glenn Beck had a joint appearance with Imam Rauf, the leader of this Community Center and implied that he was a good Muslim, yet now that they wish to build a community center in lower Manhattan, the fine Mr. Beck has caught the ratings bug and is making the Imam into a villain. Blessed are the Nielson’s baby, we all have to worship something and I would argue that the Nielson’s are more Mr. Becks God than what he reads in the good book of Mormon…(continues below video clip)..

Oh and about those Mormons of which Mr. Beck is a member, there is the Mountain Meadows massacre where a whole bunch of immigrants from Arkansas were slaughtered by the Mormon Militia, any surviving children were given to local Mormon families (bet they were treated well). I guess that using the community center logic we can forget building a Mormon Church near that tragedy… oh, wait, I guess it is OK for them, they are Christians and that makes their tyranny and villainy OK.

Another person made the comment that Muslims have a directive to build Mosques on the site of conquered lands. That is actually completely inaccurate and accurate at the same time. If they had actually studied their history they would realize that all cultures build their houses of Worship on conquered lands, it is what conquerors do. Christians build churches, Muslims build Mosques, the Aztecs built pyramids, The Romans built….You get the picture..This is the nature of conquering. If you don’t build your house of worship and subjugate the masses it is called visiting, and that is just a vacation.

Other posters specifically reference the Mosque at Cordoba and that this was a “hidden reference to conquering America”. Cordoba was indeed the original name of the Park 51 Community Center but the posters may have their history a little off…half truths people, half truths.

The Mosque at Cordoba started life as a Christian Visigoth church in about 640 AD, after the Islamic Conquest of the Visogothic Kingdom, the church and land was PURCHASED and it was then converted to a Mosque (and its name was originally the Aljama Mosque, after the founders wife). The Mosque was then converted back to a Christian Church in 1236 when the area was re-conquered by the Christians. The Christians did not purchase the Mosque back by the way, these were the Crusades and we all know what happened to people on the wrong end of a crusaders sword.

Let’s dive a little deeper, this was not an area that was originally Christian and conquered by Muslims as the poster implies. This area had a history before the Christians came, it was the local seat of Roman Power, then conquered by the Byzantine Empire, then conquered by the Visigoths, then conquered by the Muslims and then conquered by King Ferdinand during the Crusades. After this a Catholic Church was built on the land.

Let’s not try and make this out like some sweet Christians were singing Kum Bay Ya and along came the big bad evil Muslims…. The Christians were conquerors and were then conquered by the Muslims and then returned the favor. This was the nature of the times. There was a whole lotta conquerin’ goin on by everyone.

What most people do not realize is that while the Muslims had control of Cordoba, it was actually one of the most advanced cities of its day and held one of the largest libraries in the known world at the time. It was a center of learning, art and progressive thinking and then came the Crusaders.

Another person, on a different site commented that the Imam from Park 51 Community Center said that America was an accessory to the crime that happened on 9/11. Well, let’s be honest, this is a yes and no thing. He did make a comment on 60 minutes, but the poster, the radical right and all of the other talk radio schmucks are taking his statement way out of context.

What the Imam said was that America did not deserve 9/11, but America’s policies were an accessory (implying that America’s foreign policy actions are what make Radical Islamists hate us so much). Glenn Beck actually made the same statement on April 15th -  BECK: “Did we deserve 9/11? No. But were we minding our business? No. Were we in bed with dictators? … Yes”. Here is the video of his statement. (Continues below video).

You see, they both made the same statement but Mr. Beck is a patriot and the Imam is a terrorist. Hmmmmm, sounds like a double standard to me and yet more half truths pushed by idiots that only want to futher their own agenda.

Let’s move on to what another person said,  that building the Community Center is an insult to the 9/11 families…..you think that this Community Center, not visible from the 9/11 site is an insult. The plans for the 9/11 site include a shopping mall that will be below ground level in the very spot where thousands of innocent Americans lost their lives. That is beyond insult, WTF, are we going to buy a freaking t-shirts and fridge magnet that celebrate the attack or perhaps we will grab a new pair of Gap jeans or Victoria’s Secret undies to commemorate our visit.

Finally, in the ultimate insult, that goes way beyond a Community Center with a pool and basketball court, here is what Glenn Beck had to say about the 9/11 families:

BECK: You know, it took me about a year to start hating the 9/11 victims’ families. It took me about a year. Um, and I had such compassion for them and I really, you know, I wanted to help them, and I was behind — let’s give them money, let’s get them started, and all of this stuff. And I really didn’t — all the 3,000 victims’ families, I don’t hate all of them, I hate about, probably about ten of them. But when I see 9/11 victim family, you know, on television, or whatever, I’m just like, ‘Oh, shut up.’ I’m so sick of them. Because they’re always complaining. And we did our best for them. And again, it’s only about ten.

I think Mr. Beck has said all there is to say about insulting the 9/11 vicitms families. The audio is in the video below if you want to be sickened.

Enough Said.

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What everyone can learn from Langham Hotels

It is really refreshing to go to an industry event that
doesn’t suck. Most do. There are many reasons why, but I will start with this…..most
are no fun, uninformative and a waste of time (check out this post about a bad
one that I attended
).

 

Most industry events go for style over substance, trying
to impress the attendees with their g-wiz décor, food that someone thinks is
great and bags of swag that end up in the garbage. Meeting and event planners
may have appeared to have a good time, but it is usually more a case of getting
to talk to their friends and booze. Most events miss the mark which is to learn
about a destination or property. Unfortunately, this is not the planners fault.

 

Let’s get to the flip side though; that is why I am
writing here today and why I hope someone is actually reading this.

 

Last night I attended an event held by Langham Hotels. I
have to admit, I was kind of dreading it, I really was, but I had met with Ron Dreyer,
my Langham rep here in Chicago about a year ago and he was a great guy so I
figured why not. I did like our meeting, I really enjoyed having lunch with him
and we had not had a chance to speak in a while.

 

The first thing that hit me upon arrival is that in the
Langham family, Ron is not unique. This is not a dig at Ron; it is the highest
form of compliment. You see, Langham seems to hire all “great guys” (or girls
as the case may be). I was not in the door 10 seconds and I had met two other
Langham reps in a casual, non-forced way. They introduced themselves and
inquired about me….. They did not start the conversation by telling me about their
property. A nice touch, but what was remarkable is that this is not something
they trained their reps to do; they hire people that are naturally like this. I
started to perk up a little.

 

The second thing that hit me was the location. North
Suburban Lake Forest. Not a likely choice, but OK, whatever, it wasn’t my nickel.
For those not from the Chicago area, this is kinda out of the way, but close enough
that I said “what the heck”. In LA it would be like holding the event in
Newport Beach or if you are from Boston it would be like having it in
Providence. Close enough and not too far.

 

Now, this may not seem like a big deal until you realize
that this was the second event of the day for them. They were going to the
planners, where they work. They hit west suburban Oak Brook s for lunch, the
north suburbs for evening and will be hitting Chicago today about the time that
this hits the internet. I really started to pay attention at this point; I was
already thinking that this could be a little different than other industry
events.

 

The location itself was really unremarkable and again,
this is a compliment, not a dig. The event had good food at a very nice restaurant,
limited décor, plenty of drinks and the added bonus of valet parking. It was
exactly what an event of this type needs because the venue was not the
attraction, Langham Hotels was the attraction. They used a restaurant that has better
than good food and is nice enough to get people there.

 

Moving on into the evening, we enjoyed some nice conversation
that was followed by a great presentation about Langham and their properties.
Clear, concise and NOT out of a can. It was scheduled, rest assured, but not
delivered. The presentation was not rehearsed and included ad-libs by
individual hotel reps commenting and answering questions from the attendees
about their individual properties. During the presentation I actually found
myself sharing a laugh or two with my colleague and with other attendees. Wow,
now I was really starting to think that this might be something that raised the
bar.

 

Moving further into the evening, they had a couple of
nice give-aways and more conversation. As with all events, people tended to
gather into the groups of people that they know. Humans can act like herd
animals. I chatted with a couple of people that I know from SITE International,
others with their colleagues and industry friends. What was great was that the
Langham Reps made sure to keep moving. 10 minutes here, 10 minutes there so that
all of us in attendance got to meet all of their people. Upon learning that we
do not have any upcoming programs in their area, they did not bolt for the next
group, they started asking where we did have programs, did we see an uptick in
the economy, did I have any kids. Again, it was all about me, not them..  

 

Cheers Langham, you got it right, you took the amazingly
ordinary and downright dreadful  and made
it not only tolerable, but enjoyable. You may not get a program from me tomorrow,
or even next month, but it does not matter and you know it, in fact, you
embraced it. By embracing it, you have created another brand ambassador that
will talk about you in much the same way that you and your people listened
about me. I am now your sales department.

 

What does this mean? It means that although I don’t have
a program that fits your properties, you may get a call from someone that I talk
to. In fact, if someone says I am looking for a place near LA to hold a
conference, I am now educated enough to say “you should check out the Pasadena
Langham”.

 

 So, what is the
moral of the story? The moral of the story is that Langham gets it. They get
that they have a remarkable product, all 4 and 5 star, more 5 than 4, they are
unpretentious about this fact which makes them approachable and are so sure of
it that they can spend more time learning about me than trying to convince me
that they are great. That is the true essence of sales.

 

I do not work for Langham, I have never even used a
Langham for a program, but rest assured, I will be thinking Langham the next
time a client has a program that falls in one of their cities. I will go forth
and spread the word and it was not by accident, Langham made this happen
through conscious choice.

The choice Langham made was easy. What is so astonishing
is that most companies in our industry have forgotten the basic choices
required to be extraordinary.  Langham
has chosen to hire the right people, they have chosen to host their events
where it is convenient for me and they have chosen to listen to what I have to
say in an honest and genuine way rather than speak at me.

 

This should give other hotel companies in our industry
pause, because if you have not heard of Langham, you will. If Langham continues
to make wise choices, they will be knocking on your door.

A good time that educates me. Isn’t that what industry
events are supposed to be about?

Just a thought.